Some people say** if you fall in love，find someone you love;   If you get married，find someone who loves you.  Yet，this is one-sided statement. If lovers do not  love each other** what is there to love? Why do you live all your life with the spouse you do not love?

Love is not a vanity** to show off in front of everyone;  Love is not a beautiful dress** to wear outside for people to appreciate; Love is not a respon*ibility** just to give answers to your friends or relatives;  Love is your personal thing**  happy or not** it’s only you who know.